'I love you, dad': James Gandolfini's son pays tribute to him on the 5th anniversary of the 'Sopranos' star's death (updated)
James Gandolfini’s sudden death on June 19, 2013 left a void in Hollywood. We’ll always wonder what else the talented Sopranos star would have gone on to do.
Clearly, the bigger void was the one felt by his family, including his only son, Michael Gandolfini, who was with him on a father-son trip in Rome when he suffered a heart attack. (They were celebrating Michael’s graduation from junior high.) Five years is a long time in the life of a child, and, well, Michael is no longer one. He’s a college student at NYU’s Tisch School of the Arts, an aspiring actor who had a role in Ocean’s 8 (more on that later), with a girlfriend, and he’s remained close to his dad’s Sopranos co-stars — just some of the life events he shares on Instagram.
But in between his current posts are many sweet tributes to his late dad, whom he has called his “best friend in the whole world.” As we remember “Jimmy,” let’s look at some of them…
Michael was thinking of his father on Tuesday. Along with a throwback of James sitting on a bench, he wrote, “5 years without your hugs, your laugh, and [your] smile. I miss you, but today is not about me. As much as I hate that you’re gone, it in [fact] was your time. And today I celebrate you and your life. I love you dad, miss you.”
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Jun 19, 2018 at 3:12pm PDT
Just a few days earlier, Michael, who is from James’s first marriage, to Marcy Gandolfini, remembered his dad on Father’s Day as “the funniest and one of the most loving Dad’s that’s ever set foot on this Earth.” He talked about how he wished he could give him a bear hug — “in return for the million that you have [sic] me when I needed it.”
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Jun 17, 2018 at 10:37am PDT
On James’s last birthday, when he would have been 56, Michael wrote about following in his dad’s footsteps into acting and being sad not to be able to share it with him, though he revealed advice that his father had given him when he was feeling down: “cowboy up” and “push through.”
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Sep 18, 2017 at 11:46pm PDT
On this day, he was just missing his “best friend.”
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Aug 16, 2016 at 6:44pm PDT
Michael has also called him his “hero.”
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Jun 19, 2017 at 9:16am PDT
More sweet sentiments, around Christmas 2016.
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Dec 25, 2016 at 1:51pm PST
Many of the posts are lighter, showing a funnier side of James, who became best known to audiences as a ruthless Mafioso. When celebrities were sharing their first headshots a few months back, Michael posted his dad’s, which is amazing.
I can’t find an old headshot for #oldheadshotday but my dad sure has one!
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Apr 27, 2018 at 12:04pm PDT
And we’re so glad to see this silly piggy pic.
This picture makes me so happy, I can hear his goofy chuckle
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Jul 27, 2017 at 2:36pm PDT
The best pictures, though, are just of father and son together. Here they are, clowning around.
#tbt to the best clowns ever 🤡
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Jan 18, 2018 at 6:54pm PST
Walking around New York together, where Michael is carving out a life of his own.
#tbt to bobbin’ around in the city
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Feb 1, 2018 at 12:08pm PST
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Jul 23, 2017 at 12:36pm PDT
James as Michael’s “jungle Jim.”
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on May 31, 2017 at 7:19pm PDT
“Now he’s looking over me,” he wrote.
Now he's looking over me. He's always got my back. Love you dad.
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Nov 14, 2016 at 3:53pm PST
The caption on this was just “Dad” with hearts.
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on May 15, 2017 at 4:39pm PDT
There are lots of photos of Michael visiting his dad on the set too.
Hustler from day one. Always learning. #tbt
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Feb 15, 2018 at 6:19pm PST
Michael shared the story of this one, snapped on the Sopranos set. “My dad called my mom and told her that I had to come to set ASAP. When I got there, there was a enormous black bear! I have a picture with me, my dad, and the bear too!” he wrote. “It was a great day.”
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Feb 22, 2018 at 5:13pm PST
This one could be from 2006’s All the King’s Men, which filmed a lot in Louisiana.
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Mar 23, 2018 at 7:24pm PDT
As mentioned, Michael has the acting bug. He recently had a role playing a busboy in the Sandra Bullock and Cate Blanchett heist flick Ocean’s 8. Not too shabby. He shared a few photos from the set, describing himself in one as “honored.” He’s also appeared in three episodes of HBO’s The Deuce, and he was in Law & Order True Crime (starring Mrs. Soprano herself, Edie Falco!) but was cut from the final version.
A post shared by Michael Gandolfini (@mgandolfini) on Feb 8, 2017 at 6:57pm PST
Michael has attended charity events in honor of the causes his father supported, like the Wounded Warrior Project. He supported his father’s last film project, The Drop, walking the carpet with his mother and stepmother, Deborah Lin, who’s the mother of his half-sister, Liliana Gandolfini, 5. (Gandolfini left the bulk of his $70 million estate to his two children, but it’s in a trust until they turn 21.)
And it was like a mini Sopranos reunion last September when Michael caught up with Steve Buscemi, Aida Turturro, and Lorraine Bracco at a party for Curb Your Enthusiasm Season 9.
It’s nice to see that not only is he going places, but he’s still surrounded by love while he does it.