The Bachelorette: How Long Each Couple Lasted, From Shortest to Longest
When it comes to forming lasting relationships, The Bachelorette is running circles (or should we say “rings”?) around The Bachelor.
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The female-led spinoff of ABC’s reality franchise has had a much higher success rate at producing couples that actually stay together than the original: While The Bachelor has only seen one (!) final couple get married and stay married, The Bachelorette has had five marriages among its final couples, with three still together to this day. (So are women just better than men at picking the best match for themselves when faced with a couple dozen options? Yeah, probably.)
But that doesn’t mean every Bachelorette fairy tale had a happy ending. In fact, most of them ended in heartbreak. We’re taking a stroll down memory lane and seeing which Bachelorette couples stayed together long enough to walk down the aisle… and which ones didn’t even make it past the After the Final Rose reunion special.
Read on for our comprehensive list of each Bachelorette and the man who received her final rose, in order of how long they stayed together, from shortest to longest. (And if you’re looking for the same list for The Bachelor, we’ve got you covered — click here.)
Jen and Jerry: 0 days (Season 3, 2005)
Jen Schefft is in the Bachelorette history books: She’s the only star (so far) who didn’t accept a marriage proposal. She did choose Jerry in the finale, but when he popped the question, she told him to hold onto the ring and see “if you feel the same way about me down the road that you do now.” He did… but she didn’t. On After the Final Rose, she rejected his proposal and walked away sans ring.
Hannah and Jed: 0 days (Season 15, 2019)
At least Hannah got engaged to her singer-songwriter beau Jed and enjoyed a few weeks of premarital bliss with him. Then she found out Jed had a serious girlfriend before and during filming, so she dumped his two-timing butt during the live After the Final Rose special. Her attempt to rekindle things with runner-up Tyler C. didn’t work out, either. But hey, she went on to win Dancing With the Stars, so there’s that!
Rachel and Tino: 0 days (Season 19, 2022)
After having her heart ripped to shreds by Clayton on The Bachelor, Rachel’s second chance at love didn’t go much better. She picked Tino to receive her final rose, and he did propose, and she did say yes… but then she discovered he had been cheating on her, so they had already broken up by the time the live season finale rolled around. There was a glimmer of hope when runner-up Aven asked her out during the finale, but that romance fizzled out off-screen as well. Keep your chin up, Rachel!
Gabby and Erich: 1 month (Season 19, 2022)
Gabby had slightly better luck than her castmate Rachel: At least she and her chosen beau Erich made it past the finale with their relationship intact. But it didn’t last long. Just a month and a half later, they announced they had broken up. Gabby later competed and finished second on Dancing With the Stars — and recently shocked fans by coming out as gay during an appearance on The View, revealing she is currently dating female comedian Robby Hoffman.
Katie and Blake: 1 month (Season 17, 2021)
Katie dipped into the Bachelor Nation archives for her final rose, handing it to Blake, who initially competed for Clare and Tayshia in the previous season. He put a ring on her finger, but it soon came off: They called it quits before the two-month mark. Katie later rekindled things with contestant John Hersey, but they broke things off after six months of dating. Don’t weep for Katie, though: She tried her luck again on a season of FBoy Island on The CW.
Emily and Jef: 2 months (Season 8, 2012)
This odd couple didn’t last long: The Southern belle and the skateboarder (yes, that’s “Jef,” with one F) got engaged in the finale, and he even met her daughter Ricki. But they broke off their engagement just a couple months later.
DeAnna and Jesse: 3 months (Season 4, 2008)
DeAnna was also a fan of the extreme sports: She picked pro snowboarder Jesse to receive her final rose, and they set a wedding date for the following year. But they didn’t make it that far: Their love connection wiped out soon after.
Andi and Josh: 5 months (Season 10, 2014)
Andi took a swing at love with baseball player Josh, but it was ultimately a swing and a miss. They split up after less than half a year together. It wasn’t an amicable breakup, either: Andi later called her time with Josh “the most volatile and f—ked up relationship of my life” in her 2016 memoir.
Michelle and Nayte: 5 months (Season 18, 2021)
We were rooting extra hard for these two, since Michelle (from Matt’s Bachelor season) and her chosen man Nayte became the first Black couple in Bachelor/Bachelorette history. But alas, the two broke off their engagement and went their separate ways less than half a year later, with Michelle admitting that trying to have a relationship “in the public eye” was not “easy.”
Clare and Dale: 10 months (Season 16, 2020)
So Clare upended the Bachelorette formula by zeroing in on Dale from day one and cutting her season short, accepting a proposal from him in just the fourth episode. Their whirlwind romance went sour a couple months later, though, when Dale announced they had broken up — which came as a surprise to a “crushed” Clare. She and Dale later patched things up and got back together for a few months, but they called it quits for good soon after, never making it down the aisle.
Meredith and Ian: 11 months (Season 2, 2004)
In The Bachelorette‘s sophomore run, the former model and chef cooked up a romance with her chosen man Ian, and the two did get engaged. But less than a year later, they decided to get separate checks.
Tayshia and Zac: 11 months (Season 16, 2020)
Tayshia stepped in as the star of Season 16 after Clare ran off with Dale, and she and her man Zac got engaged in the season finale. Alas, they called it quits just shy of hitting their one-year anniversary, and Tayshia struggled to talk about the split on The Bachelorette‘s “The Men Tell All” special.
Jillian and Ed: 11 months (Season 5, 2009)
These two couldn’t quite make it to their first anniversary, either: Jillian handed Ed her final rose in the finale and accepted his proposal, but their love fizzled before they were able to walk down the aisle. It probably didn’t help that Ed was reportedly emailing girls back home during production that he was “not, in any way, attracted” to Jillian. Ouch.
Charity and Dotun: 11 months, and counting! (Season 20, 2023)
Our first success story! This adorable pair is still going strong, nearly a year after Charity chose Dotun over future Bachelor Joey. Dotun proposed in the finale, and Charity said yes, but they haven’t walked down the aisle — yet, anyway. But hey, they’re already in the top half of longest Bachelorette relationships.
Ali and Roberto: 1 year, 3 months (Season 6, 2010)
Ali Fedotowsky had one of the more notable Bachelorette runs — remember when Frank ditched her to go back to his ex during fantasy suites week? — which ended with her getting engaged to the seductive Roberto. After a year-plus of wedding planning, though, these two called it quits.
Becca and Garrett: 2 years (Season 14, 2018)
Becca had a chance to mend her broken heart after Arie savagely dumped her on The Bachelor, and she thought she found her Mr. Right in Garrett. He may have turned out to be Mr. Far Right, however: Garrett had to apologize after liking Instagram posts that mocked transgender people, immigrants and liberal women — and since Becca was a vocal Hillary Clinton supporter, it’s not a huge shock that things between them went south before they got hitched. Becca later found love, though, with Bachelorette contestant Thomas Jacobs on Bachelor in Paradise, and now the two are engaged and expecting a baby this fall.
Kaitlyn and Shawn: 3 years (Season 11, 2015)
After beating out Britt to star in Season 11 and turning down a proposal from perpetual Bachelorette bridesmaid Nick Viall, Kaitlyn handed her final rose to personal trainer Shawn. They got engaged and had a respectable three-year run together before splitting up in 2018. Kaitlyn later said yes to a proposal from Jason Tartick, who finished third on Becca’s season, but after a two-year engagement, they went their separate ways earlier this month.
Rachel and Bryan: 6 years (Season 13, 2017)
The Bachelor franchise’s first Black star surprised viewers when she picked Bryan over dreamy runner-up Peter. But it looked at first like she made the right call: She and Bryan got married in 2019 — our first wedding on this list! They stayed married for four years, too, but in January 2024, Bryan filed for divorce, bringing their love story to an unfortunate end.
JoJo and Jordan: 8 years, and counting! (Season 12, 2016)
After a lengthy engagement, JoJo and her man Jordan (the brother of NFL superstar Aaron Rodgers) finally tied the knot last year, more than five years after her season wrapped up. They’ve also hosted a number of reality shows together… which we all know is the key to a solid relationship.
Ashley and J.P.: 9 years (Season 7, 2011)
Ashley and her beau J.P. were dedicated to putting their relationship on TV. Not only did they meet and get engaged on her season of The Bachelorette, but they also got married in a televised special the following year, with Chris Harrison officiating and several Bachelor Nation alums in attendance. They later had a son, Fordham, and a daughter, Essex — but alas, they announced their separation in 2020 and became the first Bachelor/ette couple to file for divorce.
Desiree and Chris: 11 years, and counting! (Season 9, 2013)
Desiree may have cried when Brooks dumped her during fantasy suites week, but it all worked out for the best. She accepted a marriage proposal from Chris in the finale, and the two got married in 2015. They’re still together and have two sons, Asher and Zander, with a third child on the way.
Trista and Ryan: 21 years, and counting! (Season 1, 2003)
Ah, we’ve arrived at the gold standard of Bachelor Nation couples: The very first Bachelorette, Trista, picked firefighter Ryan to receive her final rose, and they’ve been by each other’s side ever since. They got married later that year and have two children, son Max and daughter Blakesley. Sure, they did air their dirty laundry in a 2014 season of Marriage Boot Camp — but hey, no marriage is perfect.
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