Shawn Mendes reacts to Rolling Stone interview after quotes about his sexuality go viral: 'The positive side of a story doesn't always get fully told'
Shawn Mendes has been trending today for his buzzy interview with Rolling Stone. While there’s a lot to unpack from the profile — yes, he smokes weed, and yes, he was more than friends with Hailey Baldwin — headlines seem to be focusing on his quotes about not being gay.
On Monday morning, the 20-year-old heartthrob expressed some disappointment with how his candid sit-down with the magazine turned out, tweeting, “Sometimes the positive side of a story doesn’t always get fully told and I wish it had here.”
Of course i have my insecurities and struggles but that’s just one part of me. Sometimes the positive side of a story doesn’t always get fully told and I wish it had here. I love what i do and i love you guys so much ?? pic.twitter.com/dmIHCtFc7z
— Shawn Mendes (@ShawnMendes) November 26, 2018
While Mendes is vague about which part was bothersome, the buzziest bites making headlines have to do with his comments on his sexuality, which upset some people online.
In the interview, the “Mercy” singer admitted that rumors about him being gay get to him. “I’d like to say I don’t care about it, but that’s not true,” he explained, referring to “this massive, massive thing for the last five years about me being gay.”
Mendes continued, “In the back of my heart, I feel like I need to go be seen with someone — like a girl — in public, to prove to people that I’m not gay. Even though in my heart I know that it’s not a bad thing. There’s still a piece of me that thinks that. And I hate that side of me.”
After reading anonymous comments on YouTube about his “gay vibe” years ago, Mendes decided to shut down the speculation. ( “First of all, I’m not gay. Second of all, it shouldn’t make a difference if I was or wasn’t,” he said at the time on Snapchat.)
“I thought, ‘You f***ing guys are so lucky I’m not actually gay and terrified of coming out,’” he recalled thinking. “That’s something that kills people. That’s how sensitive it is. Do you like the songs? Do you like me? Who cares if I’m gay?”
The interview also included anecdotes about how he woke up in a cold sweat after giving Taylor Swift permission to put up a video of her putting glittery eye makeup on his face for fear of how it might be perceived. He also left a movie theater early during a screening of Love, Simon — a dramedy about a closeted teenager whose sexuality is exposed by his classmates — after having a panic attack. However, it was apparently caused by anxiety about how his new single “In My Blood” would be received by fans. (Spoiler: They loved it.)
Mendes’s quotes and tone around the topic of his sexuality struck a nerve with some on Twitter.
Isn’t this inherently homophobic? Like literally NO ONE thinks you’re gay Shawn Mendes, you don’t have to worry so much. Maybe now you know even more what it’s like to be a gay person in society—always anxious, always fearful of how you ‘look’ to ppl. Why r ppl praising this? https://t.co/ePqvyORBqM
— g (@snixlpz) November 26, 2018
(1/2) People who aren’t gay, don’t need to “prove” anything, @ShawnMendes Quite frankly, the fact that you feel the need to constantly defend your sexuality instead of just letting it go is irritating. I’m sure it makes your gay fans like you a little less too. pic.twitter.com/stpKItEhYS
— Evan (@TheEvanFowler) November 26, 2018
i’ve never liked him but now i hate him lol why is he scared of being labeled as gay, is there something wrong with being gay @ShawnMendes https://t.co/eqDalPBpWR
— arthur (@jinofarc) November 26, 2018
“lmao ur gay”
Shawn Mendes: pic.twitter.com/CUEd1Ylwx2— blueberry (@Mismistyeyed) November 26, 2018
But, the pop star had many fans defending him too, pointing out that he’s long been an LGBTQ ally. (One of Mendes’s go-to producing partners is transgender songwriter Teddy Geiger.)
This actually makes me sad. Shawn has constantly shown support for the LGBT+ community and we’ve repaid him by incessantly insisting that he’s gay. I wish he was as much as the next person but he isn’t, so let’s leave the guy alone? 😕 https://t.co/biecbDLVRR
— Calum McSwiggan (@CalumMcSwiggan) November 26, 2018
Can y’all stop forcing Shawn Mendes to feel obligated to be gay and like he’s not gay and if he was grow tf up !!!! It’s stupid when y’all try to force your own sexuality on others it’s disgusting and can be uncomfortable 🗣
-Thanks for coming to my ted talk
— Kalyn (@Kalyn_actriz_) November 26, 2018
Masculinity does not equal sexuality. You can be straight and “feminine”. You can be gay and “masculine”. Stop pushing toxic masculinity on other people who don’t fit your idea of what a man should be. A real man is one of character. Thanks for your vulnerability @ShawnMendes
— Adam Pat(fa)la(lalalalalalala) (@apat10) November 26, 2018
Thank you, @ShawnMendes.
I still remember the first person who made fun of me for “acting gay”. Since then, I’ve criticized my voice and mannerisms so harshly. Now I can’t even help it.
Stop making straight people feel like we’re doing something wrong for being ourselves. pic.twitter.com/athR3PtSBw
— Dylan Toth (@DylanToth18) November 26, 2018
YouTube star Tyler Oakley tweeted that he appreciated Mendes’s “candidness with this article.”
really appreciated your candidness with this article. ALSO!! saw you wanna try mushrooms, FINE I’LL INTRODUCE YOU!! 🤪🍄
— tyler oakley (@tyleroakley) November 26, 2018
Yahoo Entertainment reached out to a representative for Mendes to inquire about which part of the interview he was upset about but did not immediately receive a response.
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