'Toxic masculinity is real': The internet debates Kevin Hart stepping down as Oscars host over homophobic comments
Kevin Hart will not be hosting the Oscars — and people have mixed feelings about that.
Two days after he was announced as host, the comedic actor stepped down from the role on Thursday night, after there was a public backlash over homophobic comments he had made in his standup routines in the past as well as online. Hart initially refused to apologize for his anti-gay remarks, but in the announcement, he made pulling out from the gig, he said, “I sincerely apologize to the LGBTQ community for my insensitive words from my past.”
I have made the choice to step down from hosting this year's Oscar's….this is because I do not want to be a distraction on a night that should be celebrated by so many amazing talented artists. I sincerely apologize to the LGBTQ community for my insensitive words from my past.
— Kevin Hart (@KevinHart4real) December 7, 2018
I'm sorry that I hurt people.. I am evolving and want to continue to do so. My goal is to bring people together not tear us apart. Much love & appreciation to the Academy. I hope we can meet again.
— Kevin Hart (@KevinHart4real) December 7, 2018
While people were initially lukewarm to him landing the job in the first place, the fact that he will now not be doing it has people riled up in a different way. The most liked comment on our story about him stepping down is this one: “It’s sad that people bring up things that happened in the past and try to ruin a person’s career. If I were Kevin I wouldn’t want to host it either for the reason it’s not about Entertainment anymore it’s political arena for celebrities. I quit watching award shows a couple of years ago for that reason. I also quit watching the Late night talk shows for the same reason.” There are also dozens of comments about the country becoming too politically correct.
But many, many others are truly offended that Hart — who did a whole rant in his 2010 Seriously Funny comedy special about how his “biggest fear” was his son, then 3, would become gay and how he’d do anything to prevent it — would be the face of the show, especially when the 2019 Academy Awards could shape up to be the most diverse to date, with many films featuring LGBT characters being honored. Not to mention the show is airing on a network, ABC, which, under its parent company, Disney, has shown zero tolerance for bigoted comments in wake of the axing of Roseanne Barr and Guardians of the Galaxy director James Gunn. So shouldn’t Hart be subject to the same rules?
Hart’s anti-gay bit from Seriously Funny:
Some of Hart’s tweets, which were deleted in middle of the backlash:
Hey @KevinHart4real Bye Felicia! #KevinHart pic.twitter.com/8vf9mNqmeD
— Peter Davis (@PeterDavisNYC) December 7, 2018
Comedian and actor Billy Eichner tweeted while the drama with Hart played out on Thursday night. This was his response when Hart initially refused to apologize:
This is not good. A simple, authentic apology showing any bit of understanding or remorse would have been so simple. Like I tweeted a few weeks ago, Hollywood still has a real problem with gay men. On the surface it may not look like it. Underneath, it’s far more complicated. https://t.co/A64LsOjVc2
— billy eichner (@billyeichner) December 7, 2018
This referenced the multiple anti-gay tweets Hart had posted between 2009 and 2011, including “Yo if my son comes home & try’s 2 play with my daughters doll house I’m going 2 break it over his head & say n my voice ‘stop that’s gay.”:
Wow. Just…wow. Does he realize he signed up to host the OSCARS? You wanna tweet “jokes” about gay bashing your own son I guess that’s your choice but at the very least, KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE!!! https://t.co/ztauMLKu5M
— billy eichner (@billyeichner) December 7, 2018
And after Hart stepped down — and finally did apologize to the LGBTQ community — Eichner posted again.
On a serious note, I’ve been around in this business for a minute. As one of very few openly gay men in comedy who’s fortunate enough to work as much as I do, I will ALWAYS fight for my LGBTQ community to get the respect we deserve. ALWAYS.
— billy eichner (@billyeichner) December 7, 2018
I’m no saint. We just wanted a little understanding, a little explanation. Apologies are tough – they leave you vulnerable. Toxic masculinity is real. I deal with it in my own way too. So on that note, I appreciate @KevinHart4real apologizing. And apology accepted. That’s all.
— billy eichner (@billyeichner) December 7, 2018
Eichner was just one of many to react. Jamie Lee Curtis made a very powerful statement: that “homophobia is not positivity.”
Homophobia is not positivity.
— Jamie Lee Curtis (@jamieleecurtis) December 7, 2018
The folks at GLAAD were shocked by Hart stepping down, saying they wished it had been a “teachable moment.”
GLAAD President and CEO Sarah Kate Ellis on why she was hoping Kevin Hart wouldn’t step down as Oscars host:
“We were hoping that this was going to turn into a teachable moment … [and] to use the Oscar stage … to help build unity and awareness.” https://t.co/Kt5qT05hAA pic.twitter.com/PNijmSM2Vv
— New Day (@NewDay) December 7, 2018
“Pose” actress Indya Moore spoke to the backlash against Hart being pushed out of the gig.
don't get me wrong. nobody is perfect. but when your imperfections harm, support harm or silence people who are hurt by your harm or representation you do not get to brand yourself as a genuine or positive person. Positivity creates space, his humble empathetic & listens
— IAM (@IndyaMoore) December 7, 2018
Mark Harris viewed it as the best possible outcome.
Great. There's no "off with his head" thing here. It's good that he apologized–and it's good that he stepped down. https://t.co/vy68zLp1zE
— Mark Harris (@MarkHarrisNYC) December 7, 2018
There is no bad fallout here. LGBT people, who don't always get heard and often get heard and then ignored, were listened to. Kevin Hart's career will continue exactly as it would have a week ago. And the Oscars will have a new host. The only people who are upset…
— Mark Harris (@MarkHarrisNYC) December 7, 2018
Some pointed out that this didn’t have to be the end game for Hart.
The main lesson of the Kevin Hart thing is that when people discover your old bad tweets, the optimum response is to insist you'll never apologize, get fired, then apologize
— Tom Gara (@tomgara) December 7, 2018
And some just took shots at Hart, who has weathered more than one controversy.
Again, the only F word Kevin Hart need be worried about is faithfulness
— George M Johnson (@IamGMJohnson) December 7, 2018
Kathy Griffin was completely behind an assessment that a female comic would be destroyed if she refused to apologize, as Hart initially did.
— Kathy Griffin (@kathygriffin) December 7, 2018
Of course, others had a different take — and said they are exhausted by this “mob mentality” and constant “outrage”:
Kevin Hart made a joke. Ten years ago.
So, the Academy decided to become one. Can’t stand cowering to the crazy left-wing, mob mentality.
— Britt McHenry (@BrittMcHenry) December 7, 2018
Kevin Hart said that he didn't want his son to be gay. There are two ways to interpret this: (1) It's a joke. He's a comedian. (2) He's just honestly sharing his preferences as a parent.
The correct interpretation is (1). But even in the case of (2), the outrage is still stupid
— Matt Walsh (@MattWalshBlog) December 7, 2018
Both sides are guilty of doing this. We saw it with James Gunn and now Kevin Hart.
People are allowed to make mistakes. They are allowed to make jokes. All in all, we need to allow people the space to be human.
Never cave to the mob. Because the mob will come for you one day.
— Bridget Phetasy (@BridgetPhetasy) December 7, 2018
Meanwhile, now that there is a big job opening, others are raising their hands. Ricky Gervais threw his hat into the ring — and the Academy under the bus, with a reference to Mel Gibson.
Busy Philipps volunteered.
I will say this again. I AM TECH AVAIL. https://t.co/Sw5gf24zYB
— Busy Philipps (@BusyPhilipps) December 7, 2018
Ok. @TheAcademy– here you go- ME OR @IssaRae OR @SarahKSilverman OR @aliwong OR @iamsambee OR @robinthede OR @UnapologeticAMC OR ANY OTHER WOMAN WORKING IN HOLLYWOOD RIGHT NOW WHO WANTS TO.
— Busy Philipps (@BusyPhilipps) December 7, 2018
While others offered up other suggestions:
I think Siri and Alexa should host the Oscars.
— Wanda Sykes (@iamwandasykes) December 7, 2018
Now that Kevin Hart has dropped out, I think the cast of #SchittsCreek should host the Oscars together.
— Saeed Jones (@theferocity) December 7, 2018
Melissa McCarthy should so obviously be the Oscars host that I'm irritated having to even say it.
— Michael Ian Black (@michaelianblack) December 7, 2018
Ok, here’s the plan. Three Oscars hosts: Paddington, Gritty and the hot Central Park duck.
— Frank Pallotta (@frankpallotta) December 7, 2018
And some are hoping this whole thing with Kevin Hart stepping down will lead to Maroon 5 backing out of the Super Bowl.
If Kevin hart can back out of the oscars … maroon 5 can back out of the super bowl
— ETC!ETC! (@IAMETC) December 7, 2018
While the search for a new Oscars host is underway, it’s clear that the debate about Hart will rage on.
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