Inheritance isn’t automatic: The probate process can take almost two years and cost thousands of dollars

Probate is the court process to file a will or establish an estate in the absence of one — and you sometimes need to file even if the deceased had a trust. - Getty Images

My mom died just over a year ago, and I’m still knee-deep in probate. I’m barely average.

The typical probate process to settle a will or the estate of somebody who dies without one takes 20 months, according to a new survey on probate from Trust & Will, an online estate-planning service. It costs 3%-7% of the size of the estate, which could run anywhere from a couple hundred dollars to tens of thousands for the 65% of people who would hire an attorney to help them.

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If I knew then what I know now about probate, I’d have done more to avoid the process altogether with my mother’s estate. But it takes some knowledge on the front end to prepare properly, and understanding the gaps in understanding can help pinpoint what’s needed.

Most people have only a cursory knowledge of probate — that it’s the legal procedure heirs have to go through to file a will with their county court, or settle an estate in the absence of a will. In layman’s terms, it’s the mess you leave behind.

Beyond that basic definition, Trust & Will’s survey shows that most people know very little about what the process entails. This is understandable, of course, because most people only encounter probate when they’re responsible for dealing with the death of a loved one.

Here’s some of what they get wrong:

Some 35% believe inheritance is automatic

Nothing is automatic or easy about inheritance. The fastest way to pass along assets is through beneficiary designations, but those have to be deliberately made by a person — and routinely updated — to be valid. After a person dies, the heirs have to submit paperwork, usually including a death certificate, to claim funds, which can take a few weeks, at least.

They vastly underestimate how much time probate takes

Only 2% of respondents got the timeline right — which is an average of 20 months, according to Trust & Will’s internal data analysis. Some 37% had no idea, and 33% guessed various intervals less than six months. Even in states where probate goes quickly, that speed is nearly impossible. The only way to get through the process quickly is in states that have some sort of small-estate probate procedure, but that usually would only involve limited amounts of cash in stray accounts, said Trust & Will’s product counsel Mitch Mitchell, who was also a probate attorney for many years.