Cathartic, Funny and Thoughtful—We've Got the 25 Best Divorce Party Ideas
Toast to your next chapter in these creative ways.
In our society, the word divorce weighs a heavy connotation. People correlate divorce with sadness, anger or even failure. Going through a divorce is one of the most painful things someone can experience—no matter the reason for the split.
Clinking glasses to observe the sealing of the deal may not be the first thought in a fresh divorcee’s mind. But, an increasing number of individuals are putting a fun twist on the seemingly-somber life event by celebrating. Whether you’re going through the divorce or someone close to you is, this list of the 25 best divorce party ideas will definitely help with stepping into a new chapter. Between divorce party themes, funny divorce party ideas and cathartic activities, this guide will help you plan a memorable gathering.
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25 Best Divorce Party Ideas for Her
1. Spa Day
Facials, massages, manis and pedis...nothing says self-care quite like a little spa treatment. Whether you head on a weekend spa getaway or enjoy face masks and cucumber water at home, it's a great way to unwind during a very stressful time.
2. Non-Wedding
Weddings celebrate the binding of two people coming together in matrimony. Non-weddings celebrate cutting that bind distinctly in half. Grab that wedding dress and splatter paint it or make it the fuel of a bonfire. Find a cheeky cake that fits the theme. The possibilities are endless!
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3. Sleepover
When was the last time you had a sleepover with your gal pals? Find the best divorce-themed movies to watch, order all the takeout and end the night with delicious treats. Cute pajamas are obviously a must.
4. G.N.O.
In the words of Hannah Montana, "It's a girl's night, it's alright, without you." Time for a girl's night out! Glam up and have a fun, late night out on the town with your besties.
5. Charcuterie & Chill
For those not so keen on the clubbing and bar scenes, why not Charcuterie & Chill instead? Put together your most beautifully-appetizing charcuterie board and have a relaxing night full of cheese, cured meats and wine.
6. Camping or Glamping
Nature is healing—perfect for someone going through a major life change. You can really commit with tents, sleeping bags and s'mores—or find a cool spot near you to go glamping if you're not one for bugs.
7. Billiards, Bowling and Darts
Let your competitive spirits shine with a game night out. Find a dive bar where you can shoot pool or play darts, or throw some strikes while enjoying brews at a bowling alley.
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8. Weekend Staycation
Embarking on a staycation is the best way to jump out of your normal routines and truly see what your city has to offer. Book a classy hotel stay and find some fun activities you wouldn't try otherwise.
9. Comedy Club
Divorce is enough to make a person cry...a lot. You can turn that frown upside down by getting your laughs on at a comedy club. The humor will make you forget your own grievances, even if just for a little while.
10. Paint & Sips
Tap into your creative sides with a paint and sips night. There are tons of places that host these events for you and your friends. Or, it's just as easy to buy canvases, paint and brushes to use at home while cracking out the vino.
11. Beach Trip
The ocean has been long-renowned for its healing powers—not just for the body, but for the mind and soul. Marine biologists have found that our brains are hardwired to react positively to water and that being near it calms us. If you live close to a body of water, take a drive out to the beach.
12. Cooking Class
Divorces are intense. They can take up all of our mental space, so it's good to find tasks that keep your brain occupied. Is there a better way to do that than taking a cooking class? Not to mention, you'll have a new skill or recipe to carry with you.
13. Karaoke Bar
Get your favorite heartbreak anthem queued up because it's time to sing your little heart out.
14. Brunch
Brunch is never a bad idea. Just be careful if you order the bottomless mimosas.
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15. Movie Night
Put a theme to it and make a masterful movie night lineup. You could stay on theme with divorce-comeback stories or hilarious rom-coms. Branch out with horror thrillers, superhero films or Disney movies. Either way, somebody better bring the popcorn.
16. Exercise Classes
Elle Woods said it best: "Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy." It really is that simple. Get the body moving and turn that stress into sweat. Consider trying out a group fitness class, like yoga, cycling or a boot camp.
17. Escape Room
It's a metaphor, really—for escaping a marriage that no longer served you. Get your thinking caps on to solve all the clues and get out of there in time! Bonus points for getting cocktails or dinner after.
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18. Fortune Teller & Cleansing Ceremony
No more looking in the rearview mirror. Onward and forward is the way to go. Fortune tellers, such as tarot card readers, can provide you with clarity in your present moment of doubt. Hire one and sage your house of any bad energy beforehand.
19. Wine/Beer/Liquor Tasting
Wineries, breweries, and distilleries alike typically offer tours or tastings. Book one and sip on all there is to offer.
20. Game Night
The older we grow, the more underrated game nights become. Break out all of your favorite board games and card games to have a night of friendly competition and laughs.
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21. Visit a Rage Room
Gear up in protective equipment before entering an enclosed room full of smashable items, like old TVs and chairs—with a baseball bat or crowbar in hand. Get ready to release your inner rage and start wrecking stuff.
22. Classy Cocktails & Mocktails
Have your friends gather at someone's house for a classy cocktail (or mocktail) party. But, the twist is—everybody gets to be a bartender by making and naming their own drinks. Sample test them and vote on your favorites!
23. Axe Throwing
Recently, I went axe throwing and the coach told me, "Axe throwing is a great activity for releasing any pent-up feelings and it's cheaper than a therapy co-pay." He wasn't wrong. Nothing lets the frustration out more than throwing sharp objects at a block of wood.
24. "When Life Gives You Lemons" Party
Use the timeless quote for your divorce party theme. After all, it's all about turning a sour situation into a sweet one, right? Brighten up the mood with yellow decorations and feast on a lemon-flavored cake.
25. Vision Board Party
Vision boards give you a clear look at your aspirations, dreams, and desires. It's an inspiring activity, especially for someone stepping into a new chapter of their life.
