How to begin a conscious lifestyle
Becoming more conscious will make you more successful in every area of life. That's the theme I proposed in the first post of this series. This is an area that is vastly neglected by most people. They approach life on a day-to-day basis doing three things: Following a set routine, coping with challenges as they come up and fulfilling short-term desire.
These three things fill everyone's day in roughly the order listed. Routine dominates. Even the thoughts we have today are generally the same thoughts we had yesterday. Next, come the everyday obligations and duties of life, punctuated by challenges, big or small. Last comes desire, which usually means eating when you're hungry, looking for a little bonding with someone else, whether as love, companionship, or sex and distracting yourself in order to wind down.
If your day follows this profile, there's nothing bad going on (one hopes), but not much consciousness is involved. The hidden potential that doesn't get expressed likes in only one place: your awareness. As you open your awareness, life opens its possibilities at the same time. Routine is replaced by new input into the brain. There is less need for distraction. When the fulfillment of desire comes, it sinks deeper and gives you more satisfaction.
The way to start arises from what you want to achieve.
To escape the mindlessness of routine, you need to break your routine. To keep daily challenges from overwhelming you, you need new coping mechanisms. To fulfill more of your desires, you need a vision that includes those things that would truly fulfill your existence. Stand back and consider these three things carefully, because that is how you bring awareness to a situation that is running on automatic pilot. Sit down with the following lists:
My routine: Write down the parts of your daily routine that are the most boring, unsatisfying and mechanical. Now think of three specific ways to improve those areas. The key here is inertia. Routines cramp your life by creeping in over time. Announce to yourself that you welcome something new and unknown, then pursue it, no matter how small a change you might manage at first.
My coping skills: Look at how you deal with everyday challenges. Bad coping mechanisms range from denial and avoidance to rationalization, procrastination, blaming others and digging in your heels. Good coping skills include taking responsibility, listening to others, asking for help, consulting wise advice, standing back and becoming objective, controlling emotional impulses and making a sound plan to follow. Look at where you are weak in these areas and write down alternatives to your present coping pattern.
My desires: Write down what you want to achieve, not as a goal in your career, but for yourself as a person. You might want to be more loved and able to love, to be of service, to appreciate and be appreciated, to be rid of anxiety, to benefit everyone around you, to earn respect or to become more spiritual. the key is to tune in to your core self. the core self is where deep fulfillment arises, not from distractions and momentary desires. Write down the qualities of the core self that you want to tune into: love, compassion, strength, truth, power, focused attention, wisdom and so on. Make these your priority from today onward.
DEEPAK CHOPRA? MD, FACP, founder of The Chopra Foundation, a nonprofit entity for research on well-being and humanitarianism, and Chopra Global, a modern-day health company at the intersection of science and spirituality, is a world-renowned pioneer in integrative medicine and personal transformation. Chopra is a Clinical Professor of Family Medicine and Public Health at the University of California, San Diego and serves as a senior scientist with Gallup Organization. He is the author of over 89 books translated into over forty-three languages, including numerous New York Times bestsellers. His 90th book, Metahuman: Unleashing Your Infinite Potential, unlocks the secrets to moving beyond our present limitations to access a field of infinite possibilities. For the last thirty years, Chopra has been at the forefront of the meditation revolution and his next book, Total Meditation (Harmony Books) will help to achieve new dimensions of stress-free living and joyful living. Time magazine has described Dr. Chopra as “one of the top 100 heroes and icons of the century.”
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