Granger Smith Shares Heartbreaking Details From His 3-Year-Old Son's Devastating Accident

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Granger Smith is trying to find “meaning” after his family was rocked by a devastating tragedy.

The country singer and his wife, Amber, shared the “unthinkable” news that their son, River Kelly Smith, died in a drowning accident at their home in June. He was three years old.

Now, just a few weeks later, the couple are opening up about their loss in a new video. Together, they thanked fans and friends for their support, expressed how they plan to move forward with their two children, London, 7, and Lincoln, 5, and provided more insight into the evening that changed their lives forever.

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We’ve been on quite the journey these past few weeks. I’ve been dark on social media, but I still have a full understanding of the responsibility placed upon me as a public figure. I can choose to snuff that influence, or instead use my platform (in relevancy big or small) towards what I believe is right. I believe I’m obligated on certain levels to include you guys in my current journey, as I’ve been involved either personally or musically in yours. - The finality and mortality brought on by death makes life feel fragile. It can weaken, terrify and separate those close to it. But it can also awaken us. It can remind us never to take a moment with those we love for granted. - In my house, we have united stronger and closer than we’ve ever been. We’ve cried. We’ve smiled. I’ve held my family tight. I’ve found strength from God and used that in the face of adversity so that my wife and children can rely on me. I’ve guarded my heart and my mind during weak moments and graciously accepted all of the encouragement and empathy from so many. I have realized that I will not slave over a search for answers, but instead for meaning. I will focus and then cultivate the light from a dark place, the good from the bad, God’s will from my own plans. I can rest assured knowing that River’s assignment on earth was always intended for 1116 days and not only did he live it to the fullest, but he lived it loved by so many, including a mother, father, sister and brother who held nothing back and have no regrets on how much he felt that love. We should all be so blessed to be able to live like Riv. - Amber and I want you to hear it from us and not just read it, so we made this little video for you to watch. (Link in bio)Thank you for all the love, prayers and support. We feel it!

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“It was actually a night just like this, and I was outside playing with London we were doing gymnastics in the yard, and the boys were playing water gun fight, and I remember thinking I was looking at London as she was doing gymnastics and I thought, soak up this moment,” he recalled. “I just had to stop, [and] soak up this moment because it’s not going to last forever.”

Shortly after, disaster struck. “Somewhere between 30 seconds and three minutes, we don’t know, Amber and I are inside our pool gate doing CPR on our son,” he said. Despite the doctor’s efforts, the Smiths later “made the decision to say our last goodbyes and donate his organs so that other children will be given a second chance at life,” according to their previous statements.

In the clip, Granger further explains how he plans to continue on. “We believe that God gave us River for three years and that was his mission and I don’t believe God takes anyone too soon,” he said. “I’m not going to play around in my mind that there’s this fictitious timeline of River graduating from college or high school or playing football because I believe he was put on this earth for that exact amount of time.”

He added that they are “stronger than ever,” and that he will continue to look for the meaning, not the reason, for River’s death. “We’ll find the meaning and the good in this and the way to spread this message and this legacy. And he’ll always be with me, he’ll always be in our hearts,” Granger said.

Before ending with a sweet montage of photos and videos of River, Granger said, “Don’t feel sorry for us, because we feel very blessed, we had an incredible little boy for three years we feel really good about that and we feel really good about our other kids and their state of mind right now. And we are going to live our best life.”

He also provided an inspirational message to all of their followers. “Love those close to you, soak up those moments, live for today, live in the present because we’re not guaranteed tomorrow,” he said.

The couple have set up a River Smith T-shirt tribute, with all proceeds benefitting Dell Childrens Medical Center. You can purchase them here.

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