Here's Everything You Need To Know About Dating A Cancer
If you’re looking for that star-crossed romance with someone who can be your better half, you might find what you’re looking for in the loving arms of a Cancer. Cancer's romantic traits make them some of the most loving and devoted partners of the zodiac. These sensitive sirens are ruled by the Moon, the luminary that governs emotions and self-expression, so they possess a remarkable intuition that allows them to tune into the world around them.
Astrology is a popular tool to help navigate the dating scene, and knowing what to expect when dating each of the signs can be the key to finding your cosmic soulmate connection. If you're curious to know whether the Cancer you’ve caught feelings for might see a future with you, there are a few signs you can look for that show if they’re into you. Read on to hear a panel of expert astrologers explain how Cancers show love in relationships.
MEET THE EXPERTS:
Leesha Lopes is a professional astrologer, poet, and mystic who uses her gifts to translate the language of the cosmos. She’s also the creator behind Heaven Astrology.
Solaris the Hii Priestess is an Austin-based tarot reader, astrologer, and published author who is known for her contemporary method of divination using tarot.
Mira Zaki is an NYC-based astrologer, photographer, author, and artist who seeks to capture the unique beauty of life through her camera lens and the stars.
How Do Cancers Act When They Are In Love?
Cancer is one of the most passionate zodiac signs–but it takes time for them to warm up to a new partner first. Cancer's way of expressing their love is by making their partner feel safe and secure. They crave connections that feel grounded, open, honest, comforting, romantic, and sensual. Cancers prefer to let relationships unfold naturally–and they can get turned off by people who push them beyond their comfort zone. “Trust must be earned for a Cancer to fully open up to you, and when they do, such vulnerability should be treated with a high level of care,” explains Lopes.
Because Cancers know exactly what they want out of their relationships, they’ll never settle for less than they deserve. However, they know they can’t lay it all out on the table in the early stages of dating. This means you’ll have to work at getting them to crack open their shell. Cancers want to feel wanted, and they return those affections to the people closest to them a million times over. “Cancer in love sees the world with more of a glow and possibility,” explains Zaki. “Love can enhance this water sign's sense of self when they are truly seen and loved for who they are.”
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How Do You Know If A Cancer Is In Love With You?
Cancers place a high value on friendships, romance, and relationships and are always looking for a stable person to connect with emotionally. They truly love with their whole heart and prioritize deep bonds over more superficial aspects of attraction. Most importantly, Cancers don’t fall in love with what they see on the surface–they’re drawn to what’s underneath. “Cancer can be shy at first when flirting but will often use their intuition to pick up on the other person's needs and desires,” says Solaris the Hii Priestess.
Cancers are in love with the idea of being in love. When it comes to matters of the heart, this water sign can’t help but trust their intuition over logic or conventional wisdom. Good thing love isn’t logical–and following your heart can lead to profound emotional connections. “Love from Cancer is one of the deepest, most profound loves a person can experience. They truly ride or die once they love you, and will protect and nurture you to grow,” Lopes tells Parade.
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How Does A Cancer Show Love In Relationships?
With Cancer, you may need to take the initiative when your relationship is first heating up. But if you can make them feel comfortable and connected, then you’ll really have their heart. Cancers love very deeply in all aspects of life, and they find a lot of joy in making those connections with other people. “When a Cancer is in love, they will be very attentive and devoted to their partner, often going out of their way to make them feel loved and cared for,” says Solaris the Hii Priestess.
A Cancer in love is very vocal about their feelings: and they want their partner to feel just as comfortable talking to them about anything. “Cancers don’t hesitate to tell the people in their lives how much they love and care about them. You will always know when a Cancer loves you,” Lopes says. If you want to show your Cancer lover that you’re in it for the long haul, the best thing you can do is pour that passion, energy, and focus right back into your relationship. Being open with them is the best way to reinforce your bond and show that you appreciate them.
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