This pregnant woman watched YouTube videos to deliver her own baby after going into labor on a layover in Turkey
A 22-year-old Tennessee woman has an unbelievable birth story — but still insists that she doesn’t “understand what’s so shocking” about it.
Then again, it may be hard to really rattle Tia Freeman. The new mom proved pretty unflappable when she gave birth in a hotel room on her own while on a layover in Istanbul on March 7.
Freeman, who has served in the Air Force since 2014, found internet fame after her friend Jakob Johnson revealed on Twitter that she’d delivered her own baby boy during her travels.
The short version:
My friend Tia was on the way to Germany to visit me.
During her Layover in Istanbul she GAVE BIRTH to a HEALTHY BABY BOYIn a Hotel Room
BY HERSELFTied and cut the Umbilical Chord
BY HERSELFAND WENT TO THE AIRPORT THE NEXT DAY LIKE NOTHING HAPPEND pic.twitter.com/iz6976bjsd
— Jakob Johnson #44 (@JohnsonJakob) April 25, 2018
Freeman had been hoping to visit Johnson in Germany but never made it. She told Yahoo Lifestyle that she flew 14 hours from Nashville to Istanbul, despite being in her third trimester, but didn’t arouse attention from the flight crew because “she didn’t really gain much weight.” In fact, Freeman herself didn’t realize she was pregnant until about a month before her trip because she was on birth control, had irregular periods, and didn’t have a large bump.
Expectant mothers are typically prevented from flying after the 36th week of pregnancy, but Freeman didn’t want to miss out.
“[It’s] a definite no-no, but I chose to risk it because the tickets were nonrefundable,” she explained.
Freeman’s travel plans included a 17-hour layover in Istanbul before flying on to meet Johnson in Germany. According to a Twitter thread she posted about the delivery, she started cramping about an hour before landing in Turkey but attributed this to a possible case of food poisoning.
The pain intensified as she went through customs at the airport, but even after consulting Google, Freeman was still unsure if she was going through labor or having a false alarm. Either way, she was determined to not “give birth on the airport floor.”
I make it to my hotel & now I’m sure I’m in labor. There is no way in the world I’m not in labor because I can barely standup at this point. So I’m in a foreign country, where no one speaks english, I don’t know this country’s emergency number, & I have no clue what to do. pic.twitter.com/sk6k10zdu5
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
She reached her hotel, then resumed her Googling.
“So in true millennial form I decided to YouTube [how to deliver a child],” she tweeted. “If no one else had my back the internet would! So here my a** is in my hotel room all by my lonesome learning how to deliver my own baby.”
Her strategy: Filling a bathtub with warm water, grabbing towels (including one to bite into), trying out prime childbirth positions, and using the timer on her phone to keep track of her contractions. Before long, a baby boy — since named Xavier — entered the world.
Luckily it happened pretty quickly. I only had to push about 5-6x before a baby popped out. Lol now let me tell you babies are buoyant. That little joker said bloop and floated right on up to the top of the water pic.twitter.com/IuqwKXFb2L
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
But then there was the umbilical cord and placenta to deal with. The latter was disposed of in a sanitary bag she found in the hotel bathroom. Cutting the cord involved more Googling, boiling water in the in-room teakettle to sterilize her shoelaces to use as a makeshift clamp, and using her own knife to make the cut.
So finally it feels like I’m having another contraction and I assume this is the placenta ready to drop it like it’s hot. So I shuffle to the bathroom and sit down on the toilet because idk where else to go pic.twitter.com/UpGTANtLnh
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 24, 2018
The next step: Cleaning the bathroom “because it looked like the set of a horror movie.”
Unsure how to address the matter of a newborn baby in a foreign country, Freeman and her infant returned to the airport, where Turkish Airlines staff were understandably bewildered.
“The airline was shocked,” she told Yahoo Lifestyle. “Since I didn’t really gain much weight they were like, ‘Did you really have a baby? They let you get on the plane?’ I responded that [the first flight crew] didn’t know.”
Staff for the airline bought Xavier — who has since become something of a Turkish celebrity — his first outfit, while Freeman was put in touch with doctors and officials at the local U.S. Embassy.
“Xavier wasn’t allowed to fly without a medical release and a passport,” Freeman told Yahoo Lifestyle. “The doctors there said he had to wait two weeks so his ears could handle the pressure, so we didn’t leave until [March 21].
“He also had to have a bunch of tests to make sure he was healthy enough to fly,” she added. “He had to get his heart and cranium sonogrammed, get all his vaccinations, check his lungs, and run countless blood tests. But he did amazingly on the flight. He didn’t cry once. Only a little whining when hungry. The airplane also had baby travel bassinets and gave away free baby-care bags complete with wipes, diaper rash [supplies], breast pads, baby food, diapers, etc.
“I had to apply for a certificate of birth abroad with the embassy, and they issued that to him along with an emergency passport for him to travel. It cost about $200 and took about a week to get everything done.”
Mother and son — who is now 7 weeks old — ended up skipping Germany and flying straight back to the U.S. Although they’re now settled back in Nashville, their Turkish adventure won’t be forgotten. Freeman gave Xavier the middle name Ata, a Turkish name that means “ancestor,” as a reminder of his (very dramatic) roots.
Freeman has set up a GoFundMe account in hopes of offsetting medical costs from Xavier’s birth, since her insurance didn’t cover expenses abroad.
Btw Xavier turned 7 weeks old today!!! pic.twitter.com/s1iHpNiUI9
— Tia Freeman (@TheWittleDemon) April 25, 2018
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