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The simple trick to make any outfit date-night-friendly

Tamara Abraham
3 min read
Prince William, Duke of Cambridge and Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge attend the EE British Academy Film Awards at Royal Albert Hall on February 10, 2019 in London, England
The Princess of Wales baring a shoulder for the Baftas in 2019 - Samir Hussein/WireImage
Prince William, Duke of Cambridge and Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge attend the EE British Academy Film Awards at Royal Albert Hall on February 10, 2019 in London, England
The Princess of Wales baring a shoulder for the Baftas in 2019 - Samir Hussein/WireImage

If you’re in need of a shot of sex appeal, may I suggest baring a shoulder? Just one of course, no need to go wild; it is only February after all. But this is an easy way to elevate your look into something date-night-friendly, without going OTT.

We’ve seen it on the catwalk at Chanel, Emilia Wickstead and Dior – all labels that have an innate elegance – and on the red carpet this awards season, courtesy of Emma Stone and Reese Witherspoon among others.

Emma Stone attends the 29th Annual Critics' Choice Awards at Barker Hangar on January 14, 2024 in Santa Monica, California
Emma Stone in a cut-away black dress at the Critics Choice Awards in January in Santa Monica - Lionel Hahn/Getty Images North America

But this look can also be embraced by the rest of us, whether your Valentine’s plans are an extravagant night out, or an evening on the sofa with an M&S dine-in-for-two deal.

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A bare shoulder is sexy without showing a huge amount of skin. You don’t need to wax, shave or go on a crash diet (nobody needs that, ever, for the record). Just let that strap slip off and voilà, instant allure. And before you try to tell me about your bingo wings, nobody will notice, I promise. The shoulder, a part of your body that’s never really affected by age, will be the focal point.

A draped shoulder top from Reiss and a midi dress from Mango
A draped shoulder top from Reiss and a midi dress from Mango

A draped shoulder top, £88, from Reiss, and a midi dress, £59.99, from Mango

If you’re really self-conscious, there are plenty of options that conceal the rest of the upper arm on the exposed side, like the Reiss top and Mango dress above.

Bra choice is important, but not as complicated as you might imagine. A strapless one is ideal; if you don’t have that, a well-fitting regular bra will suffice, just tuck the exposed strap out of sight. Any bra fitter will tell you that the band, not the straps, should be doing the heavy lifting anyway.

A model parades and off-the-shoulder dress
An off-the-shoulder dress by Deiji Studios

To make the outfit really sing, “fake tan is your friend, it makes everything look more toned”, advises beauty editor Lucia Ferrari. “Try Tan-Luxe’s The Butter for a lovely natural look, or By Terry’s Tea to Tan Face & Body spray, which gives you an instant glow.”

Diana, Princess of Wales at the Victor Chang Cardiac Research Institute dinner dance at the Sydney Entertainment Centre, Australia
Princess Diana at a dinner dance in Australia, 1996 - Tim Graham/Tim Graham Photo Library

It doesn’t matter if you have no intention of celebrating Valentine’s Day, either. The cold shoulder makes for fabulous dinner-party dressing at any time of year, since all the drama is up top. Add statement earrings, plus a smoky eye or a red lip, and you’ll raise the temperature effortlessly – no thermostat required.

Try these

Satin top from & Other Stories and viscose blend top from Camilla & Marc
Satin top from & Other Stories and viscose blend top from Camilla & Marc

Satin top, £65, from & Other Stories; viscose blend top, £295, Camilla & Marc

Lyocell dress from 12Storeez and linen dress from Faithfull The Brand at Net-a-Porter
Lyocell dress from 12Storeez and linen dress from Faithfull The Brand at Net-a-Porter

Lyocell dress,  £163, from 12Storeez; linen dress, £289,from Faithfull The Brand at Net-a-Porter

Organic cotton ribbed tank, from Agolde at Net-a-Porter, and jersey top from Baukjen
Organic cotton ribbed tank, from Agolde at Net-a-Porter, and jersey top from Baukjen

Organic cotton ribbed tank, £170, Agolde at Net-a-Porter; jersey top, £34, Baukjen

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Satin dress, £298, Reformation at Matches Fashion; modal blend top, £39, Ro&Zo

More inspiration...

A model walks the runway during the Dior Ready to Wear Spring/Summer 2024 fashion show as part of the Paris Fashion Week on September 26, 2023 in Paris, France
Dior Ready to Wear Spring/Summer 2024 - Victor VIRGILE/Gamma-Rapho
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A model walks the runway during the Tove Ready to Wear Spring/Summer 2024 fashion show as part of the London Fashion Week on September 17, 2023 in London, England
At the Tove Ready to Wear Spring/Summer 2024 fashion show - Victor VIRGILE/Gamma-Rapho
Elizabeth Taylor in the 1963 film Cleopatra
Elizabeth Taylor with an exposed-shoulder-and-necklace combination in the 1963 film Cleopatra - cineclassico / Alamy Stock Photo/https://www.alamy.com
Ali Wong arriving at the 81st Annual Golden Globe Awards at the Beverly Hilton, Los Angeles, USA, January 7, 2024
Comedian and actress Ali Wong opts for a strapless white dress at the Golden Globe Awards in Los Angeles in January - Shutterstock

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